Anyone know how to silence a mad wife?
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November 23, 2009 at 11:19 pm #355AnonymousInactive
She’s yelling at me right now as I find info on a TV. I need to leave for the calibration soon and she knows it. Yet, finds it offensive that I’m not giving her my undivided attention. I guess all time stops when she has things to say. Why do women change after marriage? 🙁
Mike
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November 24, 2009 at 2:25 am #1509AnonymousInactive
I feel the pain … but made sure my wife wasn’t like that and she knows I don’t respond to yelling anyway. I just walk away. Then it becomes like arguing with the wall.
Takes two to tangle … don’t be the partner in this dance.
And we wonder why there are so many … 🙂 Sick
If you have not read the book men are from mars, women are from Venus, now is a good time to read it. I have gone through that thing 20 times. It helps you understand where she is coming from and what your next step is. You don’t have to “believe” it … you just do what you need to and she gets the “attention” she needs.
regards
November 24, 2009 at 4:42 am #1510AnonymousGuestMichael
Surprisingly, I just picked that book up last week. The librarian at the school was done with it and I saw it on the staff table – she said for me to take it and read it so I’ve got in on my bookshelf at the moment. I’ve glanced at it…interesting stuff. …and yes, I don’t subscribe to being yelled at either. I need to walk away to cool off from listening to her…so I don’t get tempted to yell back. In almost every situation we work together wonderfully.
She’s fine now. I guess being gone for a while out on the job gave her time to cool off too. Did a Panasonic 50S1. Grayscale tracked perfectly from 20-100. Gamut is far out as usual. I was tinkering with the colour and tint control because I wanted to see it’s interaction with xyY. Even though I’ve played around before, I never really truly investigated until this point. Since grayscale happened faster than I expected, I thought it was a good time to experiment. Setting tint correctly via colour bars put all of the secondaries closer to their targets along the y axis. The colour control strictly did brightness and did not change x/y values at all. Using the calculator, I was able to get them all closer to the expected brightness of each colour…starting with red, checking with green, blue and so on. Setting the colour control via blue filter produced an unwatchable image – Jennifer was still scortching red. With brightness in mind, bringing red value down to what was expected produced a nice looking red head and colour bars ended up looking accurate through green and red filters. Blue of course was below brightness, not only measured but also through the filter… Interesting to see interaction here on a display with no CMS…and not relying on filters. Checked with source material and all looked well. Client was very happy. The end. 🙂
Mike Osadciw
THX/ISF Professional Video Calibrator
HIGHEST FIDELITY CALIBRATIONSNovember 24, 2009 at 6:25 pm #1511AnonymousInactive“Anyone know how to silence a mad wife?”
Diamonds work well 🙂
November 25, 2009 at 5:36 am #1513AnonymousGuestgave her a big one already 🙂
November 25, 2009 at 6:59 pm #1514Gregg LoewenKeymastergave her a big one already
but what have you done for her lately?
November 25, 2009 at 7:19 pm #1515AnonymousInactiveThat didn’t help at all since the yell came after the diamond … versus before the diamond. 🙂
November 26, 2009 at 7:30 pm #1518AnonymousGuestLately, I’ve given her another few big ones. So big they blow her mind.
Wait until I tell her I’m buying a new spectroradiometer.
Then I’ll give her the biggest headache of all!
(I don’t know what else you guys were thinking of… 😀 )
Mike
December 13, 2009 at 11:53 am #1388AnonymousInactiveTell her (with nice smile on your face) that she is beautiful when she smiles, but not so when she is mad, but that you love her anyway. Hug her and kiss her, it should work.
When you get back from calibration bring her favorite flowers (I hope you know what she likes) and tell her again that you love her and you love her smiling and nothing makes you happier than her smiling.
Hug her, kiss her and do it frequently; when you pass her in living room or kitchen, when you walk with her on the street or park, grab her hand when you walk with her, show her that you care about her and that you STILL LOVE HER.
Buy flowers frequently, once a week, remember about anniversaries and what she likes, show her that you think about her. Buy her small things but something she likes. (Again, I hope you know what she likes!)
Flowers every week do a lot more than diamonds once a year. And talk to her; women love when we talk to them.Many years ago I heard something like that: Man fells in love through eyes, woman through ears.
If it doesn’t help, if she prefers diamonds, fur coats and expensive cars above flowers, your company, and time with you, sorry but she doesn’t love you anymore.
December 13, 2009 at 11:55 am #1530AnonymousInactiveTell her (with nice smile on your face) that she is beautiful when she smiles, but not so when she is mad, but that you love her anyway. Hug her and kiss her, it should work.
When you get back from calibration bring her favorite flowers (I hope you know what she likes) and tell her again that you love her and you love her smiling and nothing makes you happier than her smiling.
Hug her, kiss her and do it frequently; when you pass her in living room or kitchen, when you walk with her on the street or park, grab her hand when you walk with her, show her that you care about her and that you STILL LOVE HER.
Buy flowers frequently, once a week, remember about anniversaries and what she likes, show her that you think about her. Buy her small things but something she likes. (Again, I hope you know what she likes!)
Flowers every week do a lot more than diamonds once a year. And talk to her; women love when we talk to them.Many years ago I heard something like that: Man fells in love through eyes, woman through ears.
And also listen to her when she wants to tell you about her day or problems. even if you think that it is sillyIf it doesn’t help, if she prefers diamonds, fur coats and expensive cars above flowers, your company, and time with you, sorry but she doesn’t love you anymore.
April 1, 2010 at 12:11 am #1648AnonymousInactiveWell go on amazon.com & look for this book ( WIFE TRAINING A pig’s guide to love & marriage ) written by I.B.Wright. wifetraining.net
April 1, 2010 at 1:27 am #1649Gregg LoewenKeymasterlol…thanks for that one Marcus!
April 3, 2010 at 1:25 am #1654AnonymousGuestZygmunt – she does love flowers…I do buy. Just kidding about all of the diamond stuff…she’s not like that. You are right – she loves through the ears. She likes to hear things. She doesn’t want me to buy things for her. She’s money smart which is a good thing. Getting ahead is the plan and we’re on track.
She got a bit upset again…but then I guess they always do? I had been out calibrating almost every night for the past two weeks and she almost never saw me…but she doesn’t get as mad anymore because she knows I’m pulling my weight in these other ways. If anything I get upset when the dishes aren’t done when I get home and she’s watching TV! Yikes!
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